Yesterday I talked about how anticipation is a HUGE turn on for me - and many people agreed that the POSSIBILITY of what might happen is incredibly exciting.
So here's the assignment: have one of you, preferably the FEMALE*, tell your partner that you're going to the bedroom to "get ready" and have the other one wait for ten minutes before following. NOTE: You should NOT be watching television for those ten minutes. You should be thinking about what your partner may be doing in the bedroom. And what the two of you will be doing in ten minutes.
Now if you're the one in the bedroom you should be doing something sexy. That is, something that makes you FEEL sexy. Get naked? Take Carmen Electra for a spin? Throw a bottle of massage oil in a bucket of hot water? Pop an altoid? Whatever it is that will get you hot... Maybe all you need to do is think about him, thinking about what you're doing.
And you KNOW what's happening to him, right? He's picturing you getting hot and wet while you wait for him, and it's making him ready.
At the ten minute mark your homework is over and what happens next is COMPLETELY up to you.
Have fun with it!
*No offense guys but picturing my husband upstairs naked for ten minutes 1) is not erotic 2) if he "got ready" for ten minutes there would likely be nothing left by the time ten minutes was up - if you know what I'm saying and 3) Betty is a vixen and he would likely be asleep by the time I came bouncing into the room.
I sooooo agree with your *. And my hubby just doesn't get it. Yes, it may be a big turn on for him if I reenact the end scene of the "Martha Stewart Topless Christmas Special" from SNL. But seeing the naughty bits in the light of day (or night) just doesn't have the same effect for me.
Now... run us a bath and it's a COMPLETELY different story.
Thanks for the homework. Although I may have to hand it in a little late... does it still count?
Posted by: Beth | January 27, 2011 at 11:40 AM
I seriously need to get a somebody to participate in your homework! UGH!
Posted by: Ella | January 27, 2011 at 02:16 PM
I love sending Hubby leading text messages during the day... By the time we are both home from work, he's been thinking about me for hours!
Posted by: Mrs. MidAtlantic | January 27, 2011 at 02:22 PM
Finally, some homework the hubs will help me with.
Posted by: Apol | January 27, 2011 at 10:39 PM
My favourite anticipation games last for hours. As Mrs. MidAtlantic says, send a couple of text messages during the day. Put the idea in the mind, then leave it. Let it brew in the subconsciousness. In those several hours, all kinds of crazy ideas come and go, each wave pushing a bit more. By the evening it's.... well... you can imagine...
Posted by: dandellion | February 09, 2011 at 05:48 PM