The resounding comment that I hear on my blog, on Twitter and at places where I guest post is "Wow, you have a lot of sex for someone with a lot of kids." And the funny thing is that I don't think that's true at all.
Ok, my husband and I have sex - we have sex a few times a week usually but there are weeks when we don't have sex at all. For example this week.
The difference between us and a lot of couples is that since we're in the HABIT of having sex, it seems unusual when we don't instead of seeming unusual when we DO.
So I want all of you, who are in a position to have more sex, to get into the habit of HAVING sex instead of NOT having sex. It doesn't have to be every day, or even every other day, it just has to be MORE than you're having it right now.
So to kick it off, I'd like to being back the PAGAN celebration of the Summer Solstice as a Fertility rite. (Take any precautions you like, this is 2010.)
I've dubbed it SUMMER SEXTICE 2010 and I hope it gets you in the mood for love. You can RSVP here.
You're welcome ;)
Love,
Kit
Good for you! I really don't know how or why we women have continued to hold on to the idea that we aren't supposed to enjoy sex. We are depriving ourselves and our partners. It's just plain silly.
Posted by: Really_Life | June 13, 2010 at 10:32 PM
I totally agree with you, couples need to make a commitment to have more sex than they usually have.
Posted by: blackhuff | June 14, 2010 at 04:52 AM
What an awesome idea and my husband thanks you!
Posted by: Colleen | June 14, 2010 at 06:42 AM
Summer Sextice sounds delicious.
I just need to find someone to practice my sextice with.
Posted by: Bee | June 14, 2010 at 06:44 AM
Do I have to be married?
Posted by: Mylinda | June 14, 2010 at 10:46 AM
Does it have to be with my husband?
Posted by: TheGirlPie | June 14, 2010 at 11:46 AM
...........JUST kidding.
Couldn't pass up the set-up by Mylinda...
(I'm not married; going steady for 16 years.)
Nice blog, Kit. Think I'll have it over via email.
~ @TheGirlPie
Posted by: TheGirlPie | June 14, 2010 at 11:48 AM